Brian Cummings, LCSW
Psychotherapy and Consultation
My Approach
When an individual, couple, or family comes into my office they often bring a specific symptom or problem; and, of course, that becomes the focus of treatment. Without minimizing or ignoring the importance of biological influences, or the efficacy of cognitive-behavioral approaches; it is also important to have a well-trained appreciation for the deep roots of these problems in the personality and the unique relational history of the person. This is what I try to bring to each client that comes into my office; whether the client is an individual or a relationship.
About me
I sit easily with people from all walks of life, backgrounds, and personal circumstances. I think my clients feel that. I bring a sense of humor, human availability, psychological skills, and a spiritual grounding
Individual
Psychotherapy
Most of the time we are able to meet life's challenges using our natural resources
of life experience and supportive relationships. Sometimes more specialized help is needed. There may be patterns of behaviors or relationships that one feels stuck in, or fated to repeat over and over. In those instances I feel I offer a warm, steady, and skillfull hand in understanding the root causes of these distressing patterns, and guidance in how to be free of them...finally.
Couples
Therapy
When a couple seeks counseling it is generally because they have gotten stuck in an argument -- often around familiar issues. One of my rules of thumb: Every Argument is a Conversation Trying to Happen. Couples get stuck in a repeating argument when they have not yet found the right conversation. This is where I can be helpful in finding the path to that conversation that has been waiting for them.
Men's Group
When men come together we often conspire to mask vulnerability, and silently agree to check our hurt and longing at the door. But, its also true that we can extend an acceptance and support to each other that creates a space for authenticity and honesty. When that happens, it can be powerful